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Conscious Touch (ÉT)

2025.04.20.

"Touch is a language in itself — the first one we learn — and it has an intimate vocabulary, including both pain and pleasure." – Esther Perel

Conscious Touch is a holistic approach that combines somatic touch therapy, self-awareness work, and body-awareness techniques. In ÉT, conscious touch, the body’s wisdom, nonverbal communication, and inner work with symbols all play a central role. It is a deep yet gentle method that supports physical and emotional integration, reconnection with the body, rebuilding a sense of inner safety, and redefining one's relationship to touch and intimacy.

It helps process early experiences from the womb, birth, and pre-verbal stages of life. Through the conscious application of touch, we can access unconscious patterns, blocks, and resources stored in the body, creating the possibility for deeper transformation.

As a self-awareness method, Conscious Touch calls upon the wisdom of the body, the healing power of touch, and the silence of presence. Its primary aim is to create a safe space where you can experience a deeper connection with your body, your emotions, and your inner world.

It helps you align with a state of conscious freedom — where you can make choices and decisions from a place of clarity and autonomy.

Touch in this method is never random or mechanical. It is applied with full attention, respect, and intention. This creates a space where repressed emotions can surface and be integrated. Conscious Touch can assist in releasing emotional blocks caused by childhood touch deprivation or trauma.You are invited to notice how touch affects you and to attune more consciously to your body. Through this process, you may gain new sensory and awareness-based experiences of your body. You can learn to recognize and work with emotions and tensions stored within.

What Happens in the Body During This Process?

The body retains every experience — especially those that remain unprocessed. Emotional blocks can manifest in the muscles, nervous system, and tissues, often appearing as physical symptoms. Childhood rejection, fear, or abuse, for example, may be stored in tense shoulders or a clenched jaw. Conscious touch and mindful attention to bodily sensations help bring these stored experiences to the surface, allowing them to be acknowledged and gently released.

This is not a healing technique in the traditional sense, but a self-awareness method that supports you in understanding and integrating your physical and emotional processes.

What Happens During a Session?

The session begins with a conversation to help us find a shared focus — we explore what within you most wants to be seen, shifted, or given attention right now.

After that, you settle in comfortably, fully clothed, on a mat. You can take any position that feels good for you — everything is adapted to your needs. The space is warm and safe, with soft, quiet music playing in the background to support your deeper connection to your body and to yourself.

Throughout the process, you're held in a supportive space where you can always express your needs and make adjustments — whether it's about the touch, your position, or the pace. Everything happens to ensure you feel safe and respected. I accompany you through whatever arises, and at the end, we gently talk through your experience — so that everything can find its place.

Recommended for Those Who:

• Struggle to connect with their own body and wish to develop greater body awareness.
• Have difficulty with trust and find it challenging to let others get close.
• Experience attachment issues and want to better understand their relational patterns.
• Fear intimacy and find it hard to deepen their relationships.
• Seek support in processing physical or emotional blocks.
• Wish to release blocks rooted in childhood or prenatal experiences.
• Want to heal early touch deprivation or experiences of separation.
• Experience ongoing inner tension or anxiety that also manifests as physical symptoms.
• Feel fear or rejection toward touch and closeness.
• Face spiritual stagnation and wish to connect more deeply with themselves and their higher aspects.
• Want to regain a sense of primal trust and strengthen their inner stability.

I welcome you in a space of non-judgment and loving presence, where I gently accompany the natural unfolding of your inner healing journey.

Literature Used:

  • Réka Beáta Fülöp – Integrative Touch Therapy Textbook (2024–25)
  • Esther Perel – Mating in Captivity (Hungarian edition: Szeretkezés fogságban, 2021)

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FAQ

What to Expect During Your First Visit?

1. We'll discuss in detail what you would like us to focus on. 
2. We'll go over any special conditions that might affect your massage therapy (e.g. sensitivity or previous injuries). 
3. I’ll share my recommendations based on what share with me. 
4. I’ll wait outside while you comfortably settle onto the massage table. 
5. To assess your condition, I will start the massage gently. 
6. I will adjust the intensity of the massage based on your preferences, making it strong or gentle. 
7. Soft music will be played in the background, unless you prefer silence.
8. We don’t have to talk during the session (unless you’d like to), allowing you to fully relax and unwind. 
9. You’ll be covered with a towel during the massage, and I will adjust the room temperature to ensure your comfort in all seasons. 
10. If you come in with a specific issue, we will check the progress and proceed accordingly. 
11. At the end of the massage, in your relaxed state, I will give you time to get dressed in peace. 
12. We’ll see how your condition changes through the therapy and if needed, I will suggest exercises to help you maintain the results. This is also the time to address any questions you may have. 
13. If you’d like to return, we’ll schedule your next appointment. 

I look forward to welcoming you to an unforgettable massage!

When should I arrive for a massage?

It is recommended to arrive for the massage 5 minutes before the scheduled time, so that we have time to talk about what you want. This helps you make full use of your appointment and the massage starts relaxing.

What do I need to bring with me?

When arriving for the massage, there is usually no need for special preparation, I will provide everything for you. Come in comfortable clothes that are not tight and easy to remove. The most important thing is to bring your openness and desire to relax!

What happens if you are late?

If you arrive late and because of this we cannot start the massage on time, unfortunately the time will be reduced from the time of your treatment. In consideration of the other guests, we must finish the massage at the scheduled time. In this case, the length and type of the originally booked massage must also be paid for. Please be sure to let me know as soon as you notice a delay. Thank you for your understanding!

How and when can I cancel my reservation? Is it possible to change the date?

You can cancel or modify your reservation no later than 24 hours before the scheduled time, so that it is possible for other guests to take advantage of the free time. If the cancellation occurs within 24 hours, I will charge 50% of the price of the given treatment.  In the case of gift vouchers and passes, it is considered used, i.e. an occasion.  If you want to change or cancel, please contact me by phone, email or messenger. Thank you for your understanding!

What payment options are available?

After the massage, you can choose from several payment options: you can pay in cash, by bank transfer, or by SZÉP card transfer. Choose the solution that is most convenient for you!

Is it possible to talk during the massage?

Of course, you can talk during the massage if you want. However, many people prefer silence or relaxing music to relax more. The most important thing is that you feel good, so feel free to tell me what is most comfortable for you.

Is there parking available in the area?

Yes, there is parking in the area. There are usually many free spaces, but it is important to note that parking is paid. It is worth finding out about parking fees and time limits in advance so that you can enjoy the massage without any disturbance.

Can I come for a massage even during menstruation?

Yes, you can come for a massage even during your period. For many guests, massage specifically relieves menstrual cramps and improves well-being. However, it is worth letting me know in advance that you are menstruating, so that I can use the dishes accordingly. If you have any questions or feel uncomfortable, feel free to let me know during the massage.

Can I have a massage during pregnancy?

Yes, you can have a massage even during pregnancy. Massage designed for pregnant women can help relieve pregnancy-related pains, such as lower back pain, leg swelling, and tension. Always inform about the state of your pregnancy and any medical recommendations so that you can enjoy the treatment as safely as possible.

Is it possible to give a massage as a gift?

Yes, we can also give a massage as a gift. In the form of a unique, personalized gift voucher, they are also available in a paper-based or online version, which allows the recipient to use them at the time and type of treatment they like. A gift voucher is a great way to give someone a special experience, be it relaxation, refreshment or stress relief.

I have a gift voucher, how can I book an appointment?

You can book an appointment to use a gift voucher: by phone, e-mail or messenger.

How often should I get a massage?

The frequency of massage is personalized and depends on several factors, such as the goal, lifestyle and individual needs. According to general guidelines: 
1. Relaxation and stress management: once every 3-4 weeks to continuously maintain relaxation and reduce stress.
2. Physical pain or muscle tension: Recommended once a week, as a course, especially if there are frequent pains or muscle spasms. 
3. Rehabilitation: Based on a doctor's recommendation, it can be weekly or bi-weekly, in order to promote recovery. 

It's important to listen to your body's signals and adapt as needed.
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